I just viewed “What the Bleep Do We Know?” for the first time. In my opinion, it misses the boat. Everything is focusing on the ME–what can I do to change MY reality? To me the question should really be–What can I do to change the reality for ALL?
Focusing so much on the ME is exactly what the SN wants you to do. That is how it maintains its power and control–by diverting (or dispersing) the attention of individuals from the well-being of the whole. That is one reason we have the mess we do–our energies are being chopped up into little pieces.
The 2nd Law of Thermodynamics explains everything. Our separateness from one another has little to do with what is inside our own head and much more to do with the way society–and indeed–the universe is set up. It is a dispersal-oriented universe (2nd Law) and it takes effort to hold it together, and that includes human society. The answer to less separateness and more community is to equalize the 2 major forces in human society. And those just happen to be the male force and the female force.